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Tj
Platinum Member
48
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Adelaide, Eastern Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 35 - 48
Neo
Standard Member
43
•
Kuruman, Northern Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 18 - 46
Click that Message Me Button.
I'm not going to make you fall for preposterous claims made by so many on these sites or tell you stories of how we are going to hop on a jet to Rome with old President Zuma as our personal tour guide, or how I resemble Ryan Gosling... I rather give you a refreshing perspective - the truth. I don't resemble Ryan Gosling :-) I pay my mortgage. I am a general contractor and career driven in running my own business which I find very rewarding, although I believe in living a balanced life. I don't do drama. At All. I can easily find an excuse to break out the power tools (after all, I am a guy ;-) The spotlight is not my friend. Introvert Extrovert. Old fashioned to a certain degree. Basically, I love living life. I enjoy the outdoors, travelling, adventure - in any form at any time from scuba, kayaking, hiking etc, love movies and series, shopping, campfires. I'm straightforward fun-loving guy who enjoys being active but also have time to relax and unwind. A few things important to me: God, my son, coffee, moral values, music, peace of mind, empathy and compassion, communication in a relationship.
Abdou
Standard Member
40
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Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 27 - 36
I am looking for a team player...a second wife
I am a Muslim man born in Benin but currently staying in South Africa. I am looking for someone I can build a home with and would love to have children in the future. Human beings are layered beings and you can only know someone from spending time w
Tommy
Standard Member
48
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Pietermaritzburg, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 20 - 40
i'm here for serious relationship
I describe myself as someone who is highly career minded. I work as a researcher in a university in South Africa. In my free time, I love having good fun...beaching...swimming...dinning out...and lots more. I have good christian values, and family oriented. I love to take care of the person that is truly mine. If you re the one....come lets roll !!!
Lance
Standard Member
41
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Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 23 - 41
Hi I'm lance kuhnel from South Africa
I'm single father of one adopted boy I'm 40 year's old turning 41 this month I'm a production manager at a embroidery company and I'm just looking for serious relationship I'm not yet sucribe on the dating app just give me time and I will respond soo
Ray😘
Standard Member
42
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Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 25 - 46
🙏 read my profile first to see if we match!
I'm told that I'm warm, funny, charismatic, witty and energetic. I'm a fantastic conversationalist, a free spirited hedonist and I love to find out what makes other people tick! (I'm also exhausted just reading this, stick with me!!!) I'm looking for like minded souls for an erotic connection! NB: This is not 'transactional', ONLY WANT TO MEET LIKEMINDED INDIVIDUALS WITH THE SAME DESIRES, NOT LOOKING TO PERSUADE OR CONVINCE!!!😉But regardless of all that and most of all...I'm a lot of FUN!!!😆😆!
Baresi
Standard Member
45
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Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 35 - 54
Conversation Starters
Hello Ladies, I am looking for a woman like myself, not a glamour but a kind , caring, loving, affectionate woman that is looking for a partner for life. I would love to hear from any quality woman that would love to chat and get to know each other b
Gislain
Standard Member
47
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 18 - 30
LET’S KNOW ABOUT EACH OTHER
I’m proudly African guy, 43 years. I am a man with courage and a good heart. Can provide you with the best moments of your life without expecting anything in return. I love to help people in need and fill their life with happiness. I would give more preference to nature, mannerisms, kindness and confidence in a girl rather than external beauty and money. Looking for a girl who can understand me well and respect me. Please, bear in mind that I'm looking for someone to stay with her the rest of my life.
Micheal
Standard Member
41
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Bloemfontein, Free State, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 25 - 46
Respect one another
I am a south African and I am here with respect and discipline and even if we don't agree on certain issues let's respect each other because we are living in different world but that's not mean we are different we are one and true love doesn't have b
Chris
Standard Member
42
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Port Elizabeth, Eastern Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 45 - 80
Chris Teba 43yrs a man that respects others
Meeting a talkative happy joking person, lovely carering with sense of humor. If can get a chance find someone you regret why could be long getting someone giving the best love from inside nd outside be happy all times, because we leave short time in
Adam
Standard Member
49
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 20 - 40
looking for a partiner
i am a handsome,intelligent and humorous guy out to make friends and probably find true love.i am single..... better still i am searching for that special someone. I know you are out there and it's just a matter of time before we find each other. I believe and I hope to grow old with that special some one for the rest of my life. To celebrate good times with her and support each other through the bad times. Marriage is a journey that we will grow together through. We will learn things about each other every day. We will not always have good times but we will always love each other and work through our problems. Marriage is forever. So I promise you forever. We will have fun watching football games, taking walks, and watching movies. I look forward to that day and until then, I will be waiting for that special some one with open arms and my heart full of love just for you. Anyone out there?
Mohluoa
Standard Member
Verified
46
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 25 - 42
If you are looking for white man don't contact me
alfred
Standard Member
49
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Benoni, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 28 - 47
My name Alfred from Gauteng province in South Afri
I'm the only one who really know how to care about other people I mean I have jokes, smile every day and every time I try to support with that small salary.But I looking for a woman who will help me , respect I will give her respect and I will love i
Lucky
Standard Member
46
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Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 26 - 46
Lucky is very loyal, caring and romantic. very straight forward does not beat around the Bush. He is here locking for love 😍 not Business or invest or trading. No date will be appreciated SCAMMERS, Liars, or chancery don't bother me pls.
Toni
Standard Member
45
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 26 - 46
Let's create unforgettable memories together!
Hey there! I'm thrilled to have the chance to introduce myself and share a bit about who I am. So, here's the lowdown! You know what's cool? I can actually speak eight different languages, and I'm currently diving headfirst into the mesmerizing worl
Mohammed
Standard Member
44
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Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 30 - 47
Simple living. Not looking for any drama/fakes.
Cool calm and collective, down to earth living person that loves to be outdoors and nature.Loves animals,as pets to be man's gest friend. Zero seven two six seven three nine nine zero nine, is not for fun and games. Friendship, to compatibility and t
Morgan
Standard Member
43
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Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 44 - 54
Am a caring, loving and humble gentle individual. Am looking for some one for a serious relationship. Am looking for a woman who is decent, who loves and respects herself and still willing to get me peace, honesty, love and stability in a relationshi
Patrick
Standard Member
40
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Witbank, Mpumalanga, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 24 - 44
Let's chat and see where it will teck us
I'm a very simple person who like to travel around the world
vincent
Standard Member
40
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 24 - 42
Let's connect and see what the future holds
Easy person, honest and professional, likes people and have massive respect for women.
Prince
Standard Member
40
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Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 23 - 40
Am hear to look something real ₩ith matured person
I believe in God,at my spare time i go to tym
Mich
Standard Member
46
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 18 - 55
Looking for lucky life partner
I am a trailblazer personality
Mkayz
Standard Member
Verified
41
•
Boksburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 24 - 45
The only way to know me, is to get to know me...
Fun loving, optimistic, interesting, witty, a dreamer, quirky, spontaneous, loves cooking, I could go on and on... The rest, get in touch and find out for yourself. You will not be disappointed ;-)
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andre
Standard Member
49
•
Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 24 - 43
lonely
divorced with two children
Nkosi
Standard Member
45
•
Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 27 - 46
Derrick
Standard Member
40
•
Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 30 - 55
A God fearing man, open minded and Determined
A God fearing man, open minded, Determined, Committed,caring,loving and always preserve my dignity.
donald
Standard Member
42
•
Grahamstown, Eastern Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 25 - 47
Only looking for the special life partner
simple easy goal and a loyal man
Sandile
Gold Member
46
•
Tsakane, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 25 - 28
Creative, Direct, Gentleman with courage 🌍
I love Nature, it's beauty and it's wild, I talk straight, NB. I'm worth a a decent life, place and or people..., willing to go around the world and it's beuaty, places, I love My Managing career ! 🌍
Des
Standard Member
46
•
Rustenburg, North-West, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 26 - 35
I'm looking for someone to have fun with
I'm an entrepreneur at heart, loves adventurous activities but can easily stay home and cuddle.
Dessy
Standard Member
Verified
40
•
Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 18 - 35
A soulmate is needed
Hi there! I'm Dessy, a 39-year-old with a passion for life and a heart full of dreams. Im living my life in world with enthusiasm and dedication. By night, you can find me listening to music's, exploring new adventures and soaking up the little joys
Funfreegiver
Standard Member
42
•
Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 25 - 47
I'm a fun loving free spirit
Easy going and extrovert naturally although don't socialize much anymore. I come with open heart and mind although due to circumstances are definitely not looking for anything serious right now
Brent
Standard Member
40
•
Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 35 - 45
Friendship
Need female friendships
BesBan
Standard Member
49
•
Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 28 - 47
Extremely thin and deep
Empowerment of people is my life goal
colvyn
Standard Member
45
•
Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 26 - 47
very hardworking energetic honest just hre to chat
very honest hardworking friendly just hre for friendship
Sholabo
Standard Member
40
•
Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 30 - 50
Live love... Let love lead
A simple vibrant, Caring and loving person. I like simple thing in life and humble
Stanley.
Standard Member
41
•
Aberdeen, Eastern Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Female 45 - 70
specifically someone with all sense of maturity.
I'm Stanley,41 years of age, working. irrespective of age difference,I'm interested in lovely and caring lady!
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