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simk
44 • Mandini, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking: Male 37 - 53
A strictly one man woman and extremely passionate.
I am an honest ; straight forward and genuine person . I believe in either all or nothing. I am strictly a one man woman who knows how to give and appreciate love in return . I love children and senior citizens .I am one of the best lover you can co
Bellà
49 • Randburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 49 - 60
Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will ☝️
I am a mature, single, independent, very positive and optimistic woman, Calm and self-balanced. I'm often told i'm open minded person.The atmosphere of love and warmth at home is very important for me. I think that a home is where you'd like to return after work and is a very important statement in everyone's life. I think there are no ideal persons in the world and I'm not looking for them . I dream to meet an earthly man for true love. I try to get pleasure from many simple things in life like warm wind and blue sky - I like early autumn with smell of apples and spring flowers, I like mountains and sea I like looking at the sky, listening to the silence of falling snow flakes. Our small world it's our house I adore animals and nature too. I like to have those walks, rest, lie on the sun there and drives along the beach, camping, theaters, concerts and exhibitions.
Irene
46 • Centurion, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 45 - 65
My King where are you!!!!!!
I am an educated black lady, very independent . Very loyal and honest person. A Christian. Fitness is part of my daily life. If you are looking for nude pictures, check somewhere else please. Nude pictures or you want to show me your private part please don't contact me. I think this is loud. I'm looking for my king here not social prostitution.
Linda
45 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 39 - 99
caring and loving
Hi my prince charming 🥰my name is Linda am 41years old am single. I consider myself a very sweet loving and friendly caring person. Always respect the next person i enjoy being a round people i love and i love to live life. Am looking for a lovely mature man for a serious relationship . I like to clean , travel, comedy , and spending time with my better half. If you not serious please do not contact me.
Zethu
43 • Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking: Male 35 - 65
"Ready to Write Our Love Story Together"🫂 👌
I can describe myself as an introvert, unique in many ways I like to do things differently, I like to things better then the other day, soft at heart loving and caring, I like helping people which makes me happy at most times, I like trying new things like new recipes of cooking and baking, feel free to make a quick joke I have a good sense of humour, on my free time I do yoga which I love the most, it keeps my energy level high enough, feel free to ask me any questions ☺️
Khini
49 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 50 - 61
LTR
Moved back to South Africa. I am even tempered from years of self awareness meditation, but still assertive when needed. I love the role of being a nurturer, that womanly essence of mother nature's unconditional love. I prefer a simple natural
Zanny
40 • Alberton, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 30 - 45
cheers to life, let’s live it
I am a tall black woman from South Africa. I am very sweet and honest person. I love swimming not good at it, love the outdoors. adjusting to exercising now. I love watching tv, I love love travel. I am a little weird. I love laughing. I am an open minded person.
Zee
42 • Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking: Male 40 - 55
Single lady. I'm 42 years
Loving, caring, honest, laid back, very humble, trustworthy, just cool, adaptive ;understanding sometimes crazy playful I can laugh. No nude pics you'll get from me. I'm kinda old school. I'm a Christian and won't convert to any other religion.
Shreshtha
47 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 40 - 59
Personality speaks louder than appearance
Im widowed for 13 years. A good Christian lady. Drama free. Love music n would go for a live concert anytime. Im very jovial love to laugh n be happy. I appreciate cultures n diversities. Learning about ways of life n different cultures intrigues me. Im overall a very simple person. God bless u... Thank u for reading me.... Good luck
Kayo
42 • Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 46 - 56
Love life. Warm hearted n Principled.
Honesty n Respect will help one go a long way. I believe it's the little things that matters most. Kisses, love, laugh, care. When I love, I love with passion. When I hate, well m too pretty to hate. Family oriented n Yes finding pleasure in turning a house into a home. Not a trophy wife type though I prefer to bring my share to the table. Makes me feel whole. (I love kids but not sure I wanna have more, on that note: I definitely wouldn't mind helping my partner in raising the kids.Taking care of my man who appreciates me Now that completes my mission.  A team player. I try to keep fit n healthy. My spiritual being is equally important to me.
Teddy
40 • Midrand, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 38 - 60
Just a princess looking to find her prince.
“🌟 Divorced mom with a heart full of wanderlust! I adore shopping sprees, DIY projects, and exploring new places. My daughter is my world. Seeking a loyal man who values respect and protection. My love languages? Touch, acts of service, and thoughtful gifts. Let’s create our own adventure! 🌹”
Berenice
49 • Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking: Male 45 - 55
Perfectly imperfect
Hi I'm very calm down to earth love meeting new people I'm positive, love coffee Red wine and dogs'. I love keeping it real and a straight talker I like romance books and being spoiled. I like looking after myself , great personality friendly and open.
Uniquely me!
43 • Randburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 43 - 60
Expecting the best possible outcome !
I am very intentional about finding my King here.No games, no time wasters, no nudes or online sex that's just not me.I need love that will inspire, motivates and encourage us as a unity.Love full of romantic cravings and fuel our ambitions Creating an unbreakable bond.I am not here for a fling but something deep and meaningful.I like to travel a lot, fashion and photography. I am very affectionate and family orientated.I have never been married and no kids but i wanna be a mom. I am old school with values and principles. I am affectionate and playerful when there is a need ...fun is needed also for flavour ..the rest will be known by that one who sees a potential in me moving forward.Please guys give love a chance ..nobody deserves to be alone unless is a choice of yours not mine thoughh😂💋FINISH LINE CLOSER THAN I THINK 🎊🍾🥂
Sluh
42 • Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking: Male 44 - 58
Let me submit to the love you'll give me
I'm a humble intelligent woman, loving, caring and honesty. I'm funny to be around with I speak my mind but in a respectful manner short tempered but I don't hold grudge. I like sea walk with my man holding hands. happiness is very important to me
Grace
49 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 50 - 65
Ebony lady seeking male for adventure and travel
Fully vaccinated ebony lady. I presently live in Johannesburg, South Africa and i own a boarding cattery and a cat grooming business. I spend my free time surfing the net or watching Amazon prime or Netflix and of course making luxury cold process so
Pum
40 • Kempton Park, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 43 - 51
What you see is what you get
What you see is what you get I'm not trying to be someone that I'm not. I come from a big family so I love people. Im funny in my own way. I don't trust easily I ask questions if I don't understand. I'm an athletic love running. I respect ppl who respects others.im open minded . I respect other ppls culture . I'm a Christian. That's all for now.
Khay
48 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 45 - 54
Driven by faith
Hi there! I’m a passionate, faith-driven person who believes in living with purpose and intention. My journey has taken me through some amazing experiences, which have helped shape me into someone who values authenticity, resilience, and kindness. I’m someone who enjoys both deep conversations and a good laugh, and I love spending time in nature – whether it’s a peaceful walk in the park or simply enjoying a quiet moment. I’m looking for a meaningful connection with someone who shares similar values and is ready to explore life together with joy, faith, and mutual respect. If you’re grounded, compassionate, and appreciate the little things, we might just get along!
Soliwe
41 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 38 - 56
Life is too short, love, smile, laugh n enjoy
I will only engage in conversation with those who are capable of validating their accounts this is a must and is only for screening there are way to many fake profiles on here! Im honest, loyal, ambitious, humble and loving❤❤ & caring person. I am a single mom. I hate lies
Nombuyekezo
48 • Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking: Male 43 - 58
my love life partner is out there
Hy i am an african woman looking for a love life patner..i am single never married due to disappointment from my fiance who is a father to my daughter. what a painful experience..but i made closer with that..i believe i was not born to be alone,my k
Tabetha
48 • Benoni, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 45 - 65
Heart Open for Love
I’m here with an open heart, looking for a partner who values love, kindness, and companionship. Life’s simple joys – like peaceful walks by the sea, heartfelt conversations, and time with family – mean a lot to me, and I hope to find someone who appreciates these things too. At the center of my life is my faith in Jesus Christ. Putting God first is essential to me, and I am constantly grateful for His faithfulness. I find strength and purpose in reading the Bible, and I’m inspired to help those in need whenever I can. I also value meaningful conversations that allow us to connect on a deeper level. I’m looking for a relationship built on trust, respect, and laughter. If you’re someone who values faith, kindness, and meaningful connection, let’s connect and see where this journey takes us.
Grace
40 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 38 - 58
Looking for serious relationship and durable
hello to all.. I am a person smiling respectful and spontaneous .. I hate the lie and the lack of respect. so perverts and false profiles abstainplease perverts and those who are here for s*x asking nude pictures don't waste your time...only mature and those who are here for the same cause as me..thank you
Paully
44 • Badplaas, Mpumalanga, South Africa
Seeking: Male 44 - 54
Looking for true love & its components .
I am decent ,Goal oriented, Fun, Loving & Caring. I love outgoing and socializing with the right people. I am a mother of 2 lovely daughters. I am a good hearted . I like romance.....I can love with no limitations when I am completely comfortable with my partner. I know exactly what i am looking for and can not compromise for anything lesser. Scammers dont waste your time on me as I expose you before you even get to do your scams on me. I know how to catch one😐
Deborah
45 • Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking: Male 41 - 60
Looking for my soulmate, my other half,my best fre
I'm a simple fun lady from South Africa, i'm a God fearing woman humble, kind and respectful, loyal and transparent. I'm a hard worker i love peace. I treat other people the same way i want to be treated. My hobbies is watching movies, swimming, playing volleyball and cooking African food. I love to explore, to learn more about other cultures and other countries. I love travelling a lot.Please Do Not Ask for my Whatsapp number in few days of chatting i dont like that.
madumane
49 • Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 30 - 85
African woman
I am a loving African queen, who is looking for loving king with lots of love and respect. I know they is still love out there, but only if you find someone honest.l love traveling farming, i have a small land whereby I grow my crops, im a nature loving person. I also love sports and i love playing netball. I'm also a nature lover
St
41 • Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 41 - 65
very honest, caring and have no time for dishonesty peopl. I'm not here for games. And I have seen there are alot of people here who are just joining because they are bored and this makes them dishonest too. At times I want to deactivated the dating site. please not all of us are here for prostitution and gold digging. I don't need your money I want your true love heart. Scammers please stay away
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Mosa
40 • Vredefort, Free State, South Africa
Seeking: Male 39 - 60
Fortue
46 • Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking: Male 43 - 61
Lindie
43 • Rustenburg, North-West, South Africa
Seeking: Male 50 - 60
Am a 43 year old divorcee, with no kids.
Am fun to be with,enjoy travelling listening to soul music,do not smoke nor drink alcohol.Am a real Dynamite that comes in small packages.
Linda
48 • Kempton Park, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 44 - 58
Contact me if you are looking for a serious relat.
A beautiful damsel looking to settle down.
nyasha
43 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 40 - 59
I'm a very humble person,loving and caring .......
I'm someone who learns fast .Am very quick to master things .Easy to get along with .I'm actually very keen on trying new things .Am a good listener in all aspects.Im now ready for something serious.I don't mind the race ,colour and place .I'm also a very devoted mother.I love family values and bonds ......
Najda
43 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 39 - 65
hiya where's my knight shining man!?
I'm spontaneous, free spirited.like to travel, Netflix, Spotify.
kuter
40 • Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking: Male 38 - 60
Friendly...kind and open minded
kind and humble person
Princess
41 • Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking: Male 38 - 59
Serious people only please
Funny,outgoing,witty, gorgeous
Elvina
44 • Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking: Male 40 - 59
The Queen who turned pain into power!!!
I am an independent woman with an extrovert type of personality. I love being spontaneous, funny, kind hearted gentle personality. Loyalty,honesty,trustworthy...
Fiefie
44 • Polokwane, Limpopo, South Africa
Seeking: Male 40 - 59
Submission is the greatest gift one can give.
I love being soft, appreciated and seen. I thrive in my feminine and am a nurturer. I enjoy traveling and am a Jeep enthusiast. I love being surrounded by beauty.

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