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Khaya
42 • Pietermaritzburg, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking: Male 45 - 66
a partner
More of an introvert ,only at first though. Looking to form a good friendship a relationship with a someone I can share the joys of the life with. I love trying out new things, travelling etc. Also I enjoy very much doing things at home, I'm a creative soul. I have a young son I'm hoping to raise with integrity,independence and all the great values .
simk
44 • Mandini, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking: Male 37 - 53
A strictly one man woman and extremely passionate.
I am an honest ; straight forward and genuine person . I believe in either all or nothing. I am strictly a one man woman who knows how to give and appreciate love in return . I love children and senior citizens .I am one of the best lover you can co
Irene
46 • Centurion, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 45 - 65
My King where are you!!!!!!
I am an educated black lady, very independent . Very loyal and honest person. A Christian. Fitness is part of my daily life. If you are looking for nude pictures, check somewhere else please. Nude pictures or you want to show me your private part please don't contact me. I think this is loud. I'm looking for my king here not social prostitution.
Linda
45 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 39 - 99
caring and loving
Hi my prince charming 🥰my name is Linda am 41years old am single. I consider myself a very sweet loving and friendly caring person. Always respect the next person i enjoy being a round people i love and i love to live life. Am looking for a lovely mature man for a serious relationship . I like to clean , travel, comedy , and spending time with my better half. If you not serious please do not contact me.
Merry
48 • Krugersdorp, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 40 - 66
Independent mom, seeking committed relationship
I’m a 48-year-old Zimbabwean single mom who values honesty, trust, and real connections. After focusing on raising my family and personal growth, I’m ready to welcome someone who shares my passion for life, family, and creating something lasting toge
Tsakani
46 • Tzaneen, Limpopo, South Africa
Seeking: Male 48 - 75
I'm vibrant, outgoing and trustworthy person.
I'm a fun, outgoing, considerate, hardworking and caring person. I'm family oriented and prefer to spend time creating beautiful memories. I love nature. I believe in transparency, mutual respect and invest quality time when in a relationship. I resp
diamond
44 • Port Elizabeth, Eastern Cape, South Africa
Seeking: Male 41 - 60
I am the future you are looking for
Independent woman,like to challenge my mind with new things learning every skill weather is for a man or woman ,I can make fire ND braai meat by myself,I paint my house with my son ND cut grass ,make clothes for my family I took sewing lessons,I'm 60/40 introvert ND extrovert,I enjoy my space more
Zethu
43 • Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking: Male 35 - 65
"Ready to Write Our Love Story Together"🫂 👌
I can describe myself as an introvert, unique in many ways I like to do things differently, I like to things better then the other day, soft at heart loving and caring, I like helping people which makes me happy at most times, I like trying new things like new recipes of cooking and baking, feel free to make a quick joke I have a good sense of humour, on my free time I do yoga which I love the most, it keeps my energy level high enough, feel free to ask me any questions ☺️
Bella
48 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 52 - 70
Very loving Happy vibrant read full info.
I am mature lady young at heart seeking for companionship with a mature man supportive and family oriented with a kind heart. Am a supportive woman who love to see my partner happy.I love travelling discovering. and enjoying life. I have a great se
Zanny
40 • Alberton, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 30 - 45
cheers to life, let’s live it
I am a tall black woman from South Africa. I am very sweet and honest person. I love swimming not good at it, love the outdoors. adjusting to exercising now. I love watching tv, I love love travel. I am a little weird. I love laughing. I am an open minded person.
Zee
42 • Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking: Male 40 - 60
Single lady. I'm 42 years
Loving, caring, honest, laid back, very humble, trustworthy, just cool, adaptive ;understanding sometimes crazy playful I can laugh. No nude pics you'll get from me. I'm kinda old school. I'm a Christian and won't convert to any other religion.
Shreshtha
47 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 40 - 59
Personality speaks louder than appearance
Im widowed for 13 years. A good Christian lady. Drama free. Love music n would go for a live concert anytime. Im very jovial love to laugh n be happy. I appreciate cultures n diversities. Learning about ways of life n different cultures intrigues me. Im overall a very simple person. God bless u... Thank u for reading me.... Good luck
Kayo
42 • Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 46 - 56
Love life. Warm hearted n Principled.
Honesty n Respect will help one go a long way. I believe it's the little things that matters most. Kisses, love, laugh, care. When I love, I love with passion. When I hate, well m too pretty to hate. Family oriented n Yes finding pleasure in turning a house into a home. Not a trophy wife type though I prefer to bring my share to the table. Makes me feel whole. (I love kids but not sure I wanna have more, on that note: I definitely wouldn't mind helping my partner in raising the kids.Taking care of my man who appreciates me Now that completes my mission.  A team player. I try to keep fit n healthy. My spiritual being is equally important to me.
Yay
43 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 40 - 60
I still believe in love
I would like to think that I am kind, loving, and a very humble woman. I am an ambivert. I am honest, and when I love, I love unconditionally. Just like everybody, I have my good and bad sides. I am not perfect, but every day I strive to do better than a day before. I'm in search of someone who will offer me true love, and I know I can offer the same. I have 2 kids, and do not want to have more, but love the idea of a blended family, and will love your kids as if they were mine. I'm not here for games, or hookups, and I don't want to be objectified for fetish fantasies. I'm not here to judge or look down on anyone, I am just at a point in my life where I know exactly what I want. If you're here for games and fantasies, I humbly request that you please do not contact me.
Bongie
40 • Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking: Male 39 - 60
Kind honest lovin lady lookin for hard working man
I am easy going soft spoken and a bit shy when I'm around strangers bt loosen up once we click. l'm open minded considerate and not complicated. I love family and am looking for a serious relationship, l am a 40 years old single mother of 2 girls.
African love nest
43 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 43 - 60
Intentional & direct
An extrovert and open minded to experience and new knowledge. I am family orientated and christian. I am affectionate and out spoken I have never been married and no kids but open to motherhood still. I am a graduate of public relations management through University of South Africa I am old school with values and principles I am affectionate very touchy and let loose by just looking at each other without uttering words I am hopefull to meet the right guy. I adore love truly so If i might be the lady for your peaceful soul and mind let's chat.NB: no nudes , no online sex , no rudeness or arrogance. Only seriously looking especially marriage
Sluh
42 • Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking: Male 44 - 58
Let me submit to the love you'll give me
I'm a humble intelligent woman, loving, caring and honesty. I'm funny to be around with I speak my mind but in a respectful manner short tempered but I don't hold grudge. I like sea walk with my man holding hands. happiness is very important to me
Grace
49 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 50 - 65
Ebony lady seeking male for adventure and travel
Fully vaccinated ebony lady. I presently live in Johannesburg, South Africa and i own a boarding cattery and a cat grooming business. I spend my free time surfing the net or watching Amazon prime or Netflix and of course making luxury cold process so
Pum
40 • Kempton Park, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 43 - 51
What you see is what you get
What you see is what you get I'm not trying to be someone that I'm not. I come from a big family so I love people. Im funny in my own way. I don't trust easily I ask questions if I don't understand. I'm an athletic love running. I respect ppl who respects others.im open minded . I respect other ppls culture . I'm a Christian. That's all for now.
Nombuyekezo
48 • Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking: Male 43 - 58
my love life partner is out there
Hy i am an african woman looking for a love life patner..i am single never married due to disappointment from my fiance who is a father to my daughter. what a painful experience..but i made closer with that..i believe i was not born to be alone,my k
Tabetha
48 • Benoni, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 45 - 65
Looking For Love
I’m here with an open heart, looking for a partner who values love, kindness, and companionship. Life’s simple joys – like peaceful walks by the sea, heartfelt conversations, and time with family – mean a lot to me, and I hope to find someone who appreciates these things too. At the center of my life is my faith in Jesus Christ. Putting God first is essential to me, and I am constantly grateful for His faithfulness. I find strength and purpose in reading the Bible, and I’m inspired to help those in need whenever I can. I also value meaningful conversations that allow us to connect on a deeper level. I’m looking for a relationship built on trust, respect, and laughter. If you’re someone who values faith, kindness, and meaningful connection, let’s connect and see where this journey takes us.
Grace
40 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 38 - 58
Looking for serious relationship and durable
hello to all.. I am a person smiling respectful and spontaneous .. I hate the lie and the lack of respect. so perverts and false profiles abstainplease perverts and those who are here for s*x asking nude pictures don't waste your time...only mature and those who are here for the same cause as me..thank you
Paully
44 • Badplaas, Mpumalanga, South Africa
Seeking: Male 44 - 54
Looking for true love & its components .
I am decent ,Goal oriented, Fun, Loving & Caring. I love outgoing and socializing with the right people. I am a mother of 2 lovely daughters. I am a good hearted . I like romance.....I can love with no limitations when I am completely comfortable with my partner. I know exactly what i am looking for and can not compromise for anything lesser. Scammers dont waste your time on me as I expose you before you even get to do your scams on me. I know how to catch one😐
Chengetai
40 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 39 - 60
My name is chengetai I'm from Zimbabwe now am staying in south Africa am a hard worker , caring , submissive respectful am negative status for hiv,l love myself the way am and thank God with the things l have , lam a tailor ,my free time l will work
Deborah
45 • Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking: Male 41 - 60
Looking for my soulmate, my other half,my best fre
I'm a simple fun lady from South Africa, i'm a God fearing woman humble, kind and respectful, loyal and transparent. I'm a hard worker i love peace. I treat other people the same way i want to be treated. My hobbies is watching movies, swimming, playing volleyball and cooking African food. I love to explore, to learn more about other cultures and other countries. I love travelling a lot.Please Do Not Ask for my Whatsapp number in few days of chatting i dont like that.
madumane
49 • Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 30 - 85
African woman
I am a loving African queen, who is looking for loving king with lots of love and respect. I know they is still love out there, but only if you find someone honest.l love traveling farming, i have a small land whereby I grow my crops, im a nature loving person. I also love sports and i love playing netball. I'm also a nature lover
St
41 • Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 41 - 65
very honest, caring and have no time for dishonesty peopl. I'm not here for games. And I have seen there are alot of people here who are just joining because they are bored and this makes them dishonest too. At times I want to deactivated the dating site. please not all of us are here for prostitution and gold digging. I don't need your money I want your true love heart. Scammers please stay away
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Rose
40 • Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 39 - 56
Waridi
Confident, fun-loving, kind-hearted woman who believes in love, deep conversations, and laughter. I enjoy traveling, new adventures, and meaningful connections. Planning to meet you soon – let’s create something real!
Siwe
43 • Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking: Male 42 - 70
Meaningful, Authentic connection relationship.
I am fun, loving, affectionate, caring woman. I am single and loyal girl.
Esperança
41 • Stellenbosch, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking: Male 43 - 60
In search of a profound, longlasting relationship
Iam a loving person, I strongly believe in forgiveness
DINEO
43 • Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 50 - 60
Amira
44 • Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking: Male 50 - 60
Am your best friend !
I am an open book with a loving and caring heart . Communication is key !
Thulie
45 • Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 45 - 50
Looking for a serious relationship
A God fearing woman
Onica
41 • Boksburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Male 39 - 43
God-fearing Woman, Entrepreneur, Recording Artist.
Fun, free spirited and adventurous. I believe in love.
Mosa
40 • Vredefort, Free State, South Africa
Seeking: Male 39 - 60

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