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simk
Standard Member
44
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Mandini, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 37 - 53
A strictly one man woman and extremely passionate.
I am an honest ; straight forward and genuine person . I believe in either all or nothing. I am strictly a one man woman who knows how to give and appreciate love in return . I love children and senior citizens .I am one of the best lover you can co
Mangi
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46
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 38 - 49
Only verified profiles and a video chat
A fan of meaningful conversations, loyal, confident, educated, fun, happy, authentic, young at heart, value empathy, independent, ambitious, curious and family oriented. Love to travel - let's gooooo. Enjoy outdoors, gym, hiking, landscape photography, nature lover, sewing, always indulge in my inner child, healthy, music, sweet tooth, black coffee, ice cream, zest for life, people, cultures, currently learning languages and passionate about value add and personal development. Single, no children yet and have never been married. Make me laugh and I am sold :)
Bellà
Standard Member
49
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Randburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 49 - 60
Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will ☝️
I am a mature, single, independent, very positive and optimistic woman, Calm and self-balanced. I'm often told i'm open minded person.The atmosphere of love and warmth at home is very important for me. I think that a home is where you'd like to return after work and is a very important statement in everyone's life. I think there are no ideal persons in the world and I'm not looking for them . I dream to meet an earthly man for true love. I try to get pleasure from many simple things in life like warm wind and blue sky - I like early autumn with smell of apples and spring flowers, I like mountains and sea I like looking at the sky, listening to the silence of falling snow flakes. Our small world it's our house I adore animals and nature too. I like to have those walks, rest, lie on the sun there and drives along the beach, camping, theaters, concerts and exhibitions.
Irene
Standard Member
46
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Centurion, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 45 - 65
My King where are you!!!!!!
I am an educated black lady, very independent . Very loyal and honest person. A Christian. Fitness is part of my daily life. If you are looking for nude pictures, check somewhere else please. Nude pictures or you want to show me your private part please don't contact me. I think this is loud. I'm looking for my king here not social prostitution.
Zethu
Standard Member
43
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Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 35 - 65
"Ready to Write Our Love Story Together"🫂 👌
I can describe myself as an introvert, unique in many ways I like to do things differently, I like to things better then the other day, soft at heart loving and caring, I like helping people which makes me happy at most times, I like trying new things like new recipes of cooking and baking, feel free to make a quick joke I have a good sense of humour, on my free time I do yoga which I love the most, it keeps my energy level high enough, feel free to ask me any questions ☺️
Zanny
Standard Member
40
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Alberton, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 30 - 45
cheers to life, let’s live it
I am a tall black woman from South Africa. I am very sweet and honest person. I love swimming not good at it, love the outdoors. adjusting to exercising now. I love watching tv, I love love travel. I am a little weird. I love laughing. I am an open minded person.
Shreshtha
Standard Member
47
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 48 - 59
Personality speaks louder than appearance
Im widowed for 13 years. A good Christian lady. Drama free. Love music n would go for a live concert anytime. Im very jovial love to laugh n be happy. I love watching movies. I appreciate cultures n diversities. Learning about ways of life n different cultures intrigues me. Im overall a very simple person. God bless u... Thank u for reading me.... Good luck
Kayo
Standard Member
42
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Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 46 - 56
Love life. Warm hearted n Principled.
Honesty n Respect will help one go a long way. I believe it's the little things that matters most. Kisses, love, laugh, care. When I love, I love with passion. When I hate, well m too pretty to hate. Family oriented n Yes finding pleasure in turning a house into a home. Not a trophy wife type though I prefer to bring my share to the table. Makes me feel whole. (I love kids but not sure I wanna have more, on that note: I definitely wouldn't mind helping my partner in raising the kids.Taking care of my man who appreciates me Now that completes my mission. A team player. I try to keep fit n healthy. My spiritual being is equally important to me.
Teddy
Standard Member
40
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Midrand, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 38 - 60
Just a princess looking to find her prince.
“🌟 Divorced mom with a heart full of wanderlust! I adore shopping sprees, DIY projects, and exploring new places. My daughter is my world. Seeking a loyal man who values respect and protection. My love languages? Touch, acts of service, and thoughtful gifts. Let’s create our own adventure! 🌹”
MM
Standard Member
Verified
45
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 40 - 59
Epicurean.
About me: is better shared in conversation...I don’t enjoy and neither entertain small talk. This isn't intended to scoff on any one person of a few words, but please refrain from sending me inarticulate or one worded messages as they shan't solicit a response. I’m highly perceptive, a hearty communicator and, I enjoy the company of curious and well intended minds. My travel quests have taken me to 29 countries thus far, and counting. Climbing the Great Wall of China remains unsurpassed and tops my travel experiences. There's a story around how my unplanned summit of the Great Wall turned out to be one of my notable life lessons. I've a generous palate and appetite and keenly indulge intimate gatherings around warm company, delectable food and fine wine. I grew up playing different sports, many at a competitive level so I'm quite amiable about partaking my partner's sport; either to watch him play, or watch it together. I'm a dog lover and dote on my precious 14 year old Pekingese. I'm an avid swimmer, a seasoned squash player, a keen golfer and an occasional hiker. ** Vacuous profiles are a non-starter and shan't be considered, neither replied. I delete and block all photo-less/ single photo free member profiles & inarticulate messages.
Berenice
Standard Member
49
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Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 45 - 55
Perfectly imperfect
Hi I'm very calm down to earth love meeting new people I'm positive, love coffee Red wine and dogs'. I love keeping it real and a straight talker I like romance books and being spoiled. I like looking after myself , great personality friendly and open.
Uniquely
Standard Member
43
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Randburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 43 - 60
seeing a potential to get to know !
I am a South African lady looking for a serious commitment with a serious white man leading to marriage obviously there is a starting point before marriage thing.I know what i want and seriously so.I am very intentional about this journey and fully committed to make it work should i meet a guy who shares the same sentiment and also willing to put effort as it might be a long distance relationship. I need a family of my own since i am not a mother as yet.I am caring, understanding and considerate of others but that should apply equally to both of us.I believe in love so i know i will meet the best guy for me even with his imperfections as i am not perfect also.I am very affectionate and enjoy simple things in life. I am extrovert i like learning.Walking by the beach, stealing kisses now and then, under the blanket by the fire place , taking trips , all kinds of wxercises, going for dinner or cooking at home with family or friends.Just try your shot who knows .
Sluh
Standard Member
42
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Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 44 - 58
Let me submit to the love you'll give me
I'm a humble intelligent woman, loving, caring and honesty. I'm funny to be around with I speak my mind but in a respectful manner short tempered but I don't hold grudge. I like sea walk with my man holding hands. happiness is very important to me
Grace
Standard Member
49
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 50 - 65
Ebony lady seeking male for adventure and travel
Fully vaccinated ebony lady. I presently live in Johannesburg, South Africa and i own a boarding cattery and a cat grooming business. I spend my free time surfing the net or watching Amazon prime or Netflix and of course making luxury cold process so
Pum
Standard Member
40
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Kempton Park, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 43 - 51
What you see is what you get
What you see is what you get I'm not trying to be someone that I'm not. I come from a big family so I love people. Im funny in my own way. I don't trust easily I ask questions if I don't understand. I'm an athletic love running. I respect ppl who respects others.im open minded . I respect other ppls culture . I'm a Christian. That's all for now.
Hallie
Standard Member
49
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Boksburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 48 - 60
No drama
Hello you. I am a simple girl, a bit of a home body. I enjoy reading, going for walks, music, live concerts, nature or watching a good movie. Loud crowds are not my thing, I prefer a good laugh and good conversation with friends and family, sipping on a glass of wine or cocktail. I would describe myself as calm, polite and loyal. My best friend’s son says I’m the kind of friend you can count on to help you dispose of a body and never mention it again 🫢 I walk in the mornings to keep the kilos down and stay healthy. I also try to jog but that is a work in progress, wish me luck.
Soliwe
Standard Member
41
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 38 - 56
Life is too short, love, smile, laugh n enjoy
I will only engage in conversation with those who are capable of validating their accounts this is a must and is only for screening there are way to many fake profiles on here! Im honest, loyal, ambitious, humble and loving❤❤ & caring person. I am a single mom. I hate lies
Nombuyekezo
Standard Member
48
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Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 43 - 58
my love life partner is out there
Hy i am an african woman looking for a love life patner..i am single never married due to disappointment from my fiance who is a father to my daughter. what a painful experience..but i made closer with that..i believe i was not born to be alone,my k
Tabie
Standard Member
47
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Benoni, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 45 - 65
Let's spend our lives together ❤
I'm a calm,loving and caring lady,who is family oriented. I love to see families in union and I love children even though I don't have my own.Love to see people happy and living in peace,I don't like drama.I believe in treating each individual respe
Grace
Standard Member
40
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 38 - 58
Looking for serious relationship and durable
hello to all.. I am a person smiling respectful and spontaneous .. I hate the lie and the lack of respect. so perverts and false profiles abstainplease perverts and those who are here for s*x asking nude pictures don't waste your time...only mature and those who are here for the same cause as me..thank you
Paully
Standard Member
Verified
44
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Badplaas, Mpumalanga, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 44 - 54
Looking for true love & its components .
I am decent ,Goal oriented, Fun, Loving & Caring. I love outgoing and socializing with the right people. I am a mother of 2 lovely daughters. I am a good hearted . I like romance.....I can love with no limitations when I am completely comfortable with my partner. I know exactly what i am looking for and can not compromise for anything lesser. Scammers dont waste your time on me as I expose you before you even get to do your scams on me. I know how to catch one😐
Deborah
Standard Member
45
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Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 41 - 60
Looking for my soulmate, my other half,my best fre
I'm a simple fun lady from South Africa, i'm a God fearing woman humble, kind and respectful, loyal and transparent. I'm a hard worker i love peace. I treat other people the same way i want to be treated. My hobbies is watching movies, swimming, playing volleyball and cooking African food. I love to explore, to learn more about other cultures and other countries. I love travelling a lot.Please Do Not Ask for my Whatsapp number in few days of chatting i dont like that.
Dorckydoll
Standard Member
44
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 39 - 55
I am Fun happy loving person
I am Fun happy loving person, I can be a bit bossy sometimes but for your own good hahaha dont let that scare you because when I love I love for real! Please note Im not looking for a hook up, there is plenty out here. Don't waste my time I won't waste yours. I’m a happy soul, mother of two, not looking for a replacement father but someone to love and be loved
madumane
Standard Member
49
•
Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 30 - 85
African woman
I am a loving African queen, who is looking for loving king with lots of love and respect. I know they is still love out there, but only if you find someone honest.l love traveling farming, i have a small land whereby I grow my crops, im a nature loving person. I also love sports and i love playing netball. I'm also a nature lover
Zoh
Standard Member
Verified
40
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Centurion, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 35 - 45
Looking for a healthy, long term relationship.
I'm a passionate, fun, loving, kind-hearted lady. I love making friends, travelling and outdoors in general. I'm looking for someone like minded to spend the next 40 years of my life with (Or more..) I was born in S.A and have lived in the UK, Ukraine and Georgia. I speak some Russian and basic conversational German.
St
Standard Member
41
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Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 41 - 65
very honest, caring and have no time for dishonesty peopl. I'm not here for games. And I have seen there are alot of people here who are just joining because they are bored and this makes them dishonest too. At times I want to deactivated the dating site. please not all of us are here for prostitution and gold digging. I don't need your money I want your true love heart. Scammers please stay away
Linda
Standard Member
48
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Kempton Park, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 44 - 58
Contact me if you are looking for a serious relat.
A beautiful damsel looking to settle down.
nyasha
Standard Member
43
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 40 - 59
I'm a very humble person,loving and caring .......
I'm someone who learns fast .Am very quick to master things .Easy to get along with .I'm actually very keen on trying new things .Am a good listener in all aspects.Im now ready for something serious.I don't mind the race ,colour and place .I'm also a very devoted mother.I love family values and bonds ......
Chrissy
Standard Member
43
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 39 - 65
hiya where's my knight shining man!?
I'm spontaneous, free spirited.like to travel, Netflix, Spotify.
kuter
Standard Member
40
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Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 38 - 60
Friendly...kind and open minded
kind and humble person
Princess
Standard Member
41
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Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 38 - 59
Serious people only please
Funny,outgoing,witty, gorgeous
Elvina
Standard Member
44
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Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 40 - 59
The Queen who turned pain into power!!!
I am an independent woman with an extrovert type of personality. I love being spontaneous, funny, kind hearted gentle personality. Loyalty,honesty,trustworthy...
Fiefie
Standard Member
44
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Polokwane, Limpopo, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 40 - 59
Submission is the greatest gift one can give.
I love being soft, appreciated and seen. I thrive in my feminine and am a nurturer. I enjoy traveling and am a Jeep enthusiast. I love being surrounded by beauty.
Tsebo Nqhome
Standard Member
44
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Mount Fletcher, Eastern Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 40 - 59
Tumi
Standard Member
41
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 40 - 50
I am a bubbly, fun and very affectionate lady.
Hello. I am a bubbly lady looking for a matured man between 40-50. I am a fun person who is settled and comfortable in life. I love love and I want to be pampered. I am a very affectionate person, easy to live and a fun person to hang with. PS: I am chocolate and flowers kind a girl... 🌸🌸
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