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Wealthy
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36
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Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 35 - 65
Im a very straight forward person...so Finding my loving caring God fearing husband is the end goal..Dating is exausting...i know Most men lie because deep down they are dirty... they know if they showed women their true colors & tell women the truth about their intentions, no woman will open their heart for them or love them..so please dont inbox me if you pretend to be a good man,faking personality,future faking,manipulative,depending on lies & deception to gain women..im a very spirutual person .....I don’t know how a man can get aroused when your life is not in order😂..your life must be in order please & scammers i will report you & block you immidiatly...
Sylvia
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Verified
36
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 35 - 50
Looking for a genuine connection
I’m kind hearted, caring , authentic and sincere lady. I am here for the right reasons, that is to find true connection. I believe a little bit of sense of humor goes a long way when trying to get to know someone. I have been single for over 2 years now . I took time out to work on myself and I believe I am ready to find someone I can truly commit and wholeheartedly give myself to. I love to read a lot and I would love to meet someone who enjoys reading and being in nature. I love to travel a lot , I would like to meet someone who enjoys travelling like I do .
Nomsa
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36
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Lenasia, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 35 - 57
Spirit d' Afrique
9ether Goddess, grounded in African spirituality and enlightenment. earthing is important, be one with nature. I'm a cynophile. I have a charismatic personality, I command attention, my presence in a room is noticeable, I'm a special kind of likable. Some people find me approachable and some don't. My profile is verified and I don't need men I met a few minutes ago pressuring me for a video call, I'll video call in my own time and on my terms. Thank you! 💚
Reina
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32
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Benoni, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 32 - 60
Professional Snack Taster Seeking Partner in Crime
I always find writing these profiles a bit tricky—let’s be honest, most people skim through and focus on the photos! But here goes... I’m Ree (short for something mysterious—ask me and I’ll spill the beans). Freshly divorced and diving into the dating scene with a love for books, trivia, and all things quirky. If it catches my eye, whether it's the "did you know" section on a gum wrapper or an intriguing article, I’ll probably devour it. Fair warning: I might delight you with random fun facts! Outgoing and social, but I also enjoy my downtime. I can be a riot or enjoy peaceful moments. Laughter is a big deal for me, and my humor is a blend of nerdy, dry, sarcastic, and occasionally a touch naughty. I’m all about great conversations, hearty laughs, and the occasional drink. I’ve recently embraced the gym—not because I’m thrilled by it, but because punching life’s problems isn’t socially acceptable (just kidding!). I’m opinionated but dislike unnecessary drama. I’m fiercely protective of my loved ones and prefer to avoid pointless arguments. My music tastes are all over the map—from Andrè Rieu to Aya Nakamura, and everything in between. I can’t imagine life without music and, as a natural dancer, you’ll probably catch me busting a move to a good beat. Family means the world to me. I have a big, loving family and though I have no kids yet , I adore my nieces and nephews who’ll attest to my great auntie skills (with a bit of bribery, of course). Cooking is a passion, though I’m not so keen on doing the dishes. I’m also a fan of documentaries and some guilty pleasure TV—what are your favorites? I love a good road trip and am eager to explore beyond Africa. My travel bucket list is growing! Like most women, I can be a bit moody, crazy, and indecisive—but I’m a true romantic at heart. I believe we all deserve someone worth our love, time, and effort. I’m a blend of modern and traditional, and there’s much more to me than can fit in this profile. Let’s chat and discover if we’re a match!
Mavis
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37
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 45 - 70
Looking for the special one!!
I am a very creative and active woman. I have many other interests, sometimes there is not enough time for me for them. You may ask what makes me special from all of them? I have a sincere heart and just looking into my eyes you can feel it. I consider that a task of a woman is to watch herself and to decorate the world! I dream of finding a man whom I can make happy; for some people even a small thing is enough to be happy. Maybe we already found each other. Write me and I will answer.
Leah
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30
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 30 - 52
Beautiful South African Woman.
A South African woman who knows what she wants out of life. I’m looking for something serious, but I’m happy single, so it’s not just going to be anyone i will know when I find the one. I’m an introvert who likes hiking, fashion, trying out new foods and activities, connecting with nature, reading, road trips and spending quality time with my family and friends. My love languages are quality time, acts of service and gift giving. And I like deep meaningful conversations. It’s really easy for anyone to say they are genuine but words hold no weight actions do.
T. M
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34
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Centurion, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 33 - 52
Forever a realist
I'll keep it brief: To me friendships are as important as romantic relationships so thats my priority. I don't care about race, occupation, or even the number of kids a person has, but religion is a tricky one because I'm Christian and I would never want anyone to impose any of their beliefs on me just as much as I wouldnt impose mine on them. Accepting each other for who we are is paramount, mutual respect and understanding that none of us is a project that need to be worked on. About me: Lets get this out of the way for your peace of mind and mine, I am South African so if you believe in all these stereotypes about Africans I genuinely don't have time for that conversation, whatever you have heard about Africans from TV or whoever please don't come to me to fact check any of those silly stereotypes I'm not Google. I am looking for the same thing that everyone is looking for, a genuine connection, respect, kindness and just peace. It's not too much to ask right? Ill be honest, Im opinionated but I prefer to listen more than talk, I love people who know what they want in life and I respect that a lot. I work in an environment where we need to be serious and professional all the time but when I get off work I prefer to chill and be goofy. I like to keep things light and just love positive vibes in general, I absolutely hate drama and self-absorbed people. I just love laughing and cracking dry jokes. The rest you will just have to find out.
milliha
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35
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Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 35 - 59
let's chat, meet for lunch and see where it goes!!
I'm a fun loving person, well traveled as my work takes me to a lot of different countries. I love meeting new people and experience different cultures, I'm fun to be with and like to think I'm very funny, I'm always calm and like to make those I care about happy and free to be themselves around me
Zime
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35
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Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 35 - 55
An African Queen that's ready to find her King!
Hi,i was actually born in 1986,this thing won't let me change it(sorry). I have a great sense of humour and I feel there's always a reason to laugh or smile about something. Life is just too short. I love sci-fi, comedy and action movies. I enjoy any music that speaks to my soul, and I love to dance! I am kind hearted, respectful and loyal. I would love to find someone that will be a friend and that can return all the love I have to give.
Nonty
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31
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 25 - 40
Life is too short to be unhappy.
I'm all about positive energy. Smiles and laughter fill my soul. I am sweet but plenty sassy and always keep people on their toes. I have the biggest sense of humour. I love making people happy. I've been referred to as "Sunshine in human form" I lov
beaulay
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Verified
32
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Bedford, Eastern Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 33 - 48
Genuiness, communication and love
Hi, i'm Beaulay — a calm yet intriguing mix of brains, heart, and laughter 🎉. i believe in the power of seep conversations, good food 🍯( my cooking is legendary👌), and quality time with loved ones. Honestly and kindness are very important to me, and i truly value people who treat others with respect and courtesy. Please be nice—it cost nothing but means everything 💕
Londo
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38
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Midrand, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 36 - 58
Looking forward to settle down with a husband..
A mother of 1 child,looking for my better half to start making a family and have another child and marry,,i believe in true love mentioned by GOD,im a down to earth person, raised in a village with kind personality,i am a submisive,humble and respectful woman who allows a Men to be the he'd and lead,please make me laugh and am simple to adapt to any change; culture,race,language & place,please open your heart for me and be able to communicate when addressing matters.
Nthabiseng
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30
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 33 - 61
I'm an introvert, a CAPRICON, humble and easy to get along with...I respect other people's cultures and beliefs. New found love for INK, I PERSONALLY THINK IT'S SEXY 😚😙❤️ Currently looking for something stable. FIRST MEER UP AT YOU HOUSE🚩🚩SIR NO Please do not ask me what I'm doing here it's really annoying. Ohh and lastly I hate filters🙄🙄I just think they are fraudulent
Lee
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32
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 33 - 66
Love is what my spirit needs
I'm a talkative, very caring, genuine hearted person that lives for family and travelling. Meeting new people and creating new memories... I love art and nature and a good fancy dinner at times, I enjoy cooking and serving God. Playing in the garden is my favourite thing to do...growing food amazes me almost every harvest. Music and laughter
Tyra
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32
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Newcastle, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 33 - 58
I’m open hearted, art as I’m a fashion designer I look good and smelling good at all times. I love happy environment, where we resolve issues and move on, smile and laugh as much as we can. I love honesty more than anything. I’m a social being, and I love intimacy. I love fashion, elegance , classic vintage fashion
Blessie
Standard Member
30
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Centurion, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 33 - 61
I see humans more than color. I'm creative, ambitious, great humor and a little shy. I like to explore new and different things, learn, experience new places and culture. I value intelligent and educated people with whom I can talk about different topics. Just total bliss.
Hope
Standard Member
38
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 35 - 51
Greetings, have a conversation to see if we match.
I am an introverted person who likes converstions with people who think different than me. I am into reading books, watching movies and series, I do go out once every month to interact with other humans. I do enjoy just speaking my mind and listening to how others see the world. Ask away.
Mands
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32
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Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 35 - 50
Looking for a long term relationship ♥️
I’m a unique one of a kind BIG DEAL. I am one honest human being you can come across. I believe in Transparency, Humanity and Unconditional Love. I am not one for small talks, I prefer deep conversations with soul. I enjoy watching the Full Moon and
Sharifa
Standard Member
Verified
31
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East London, Eastern Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 33 - 61
Tired of Online Dating? Let me b ur testimony
Iam Shifah physically fit and outgoing. I was born in Kampala Uganda, and that’s where most of my family is. But I finally had to move out here in South Africa for my job at my absolute best institution in the world🥰 (Maybe I’ll tell you more about it 😉
Dola
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Verified
36
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Coffee Bay, Eastern Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 34 - 57
No pickup lines work for me. Only open to honesty.
A little bit about myself, I’m just your average 5’6" Nigerian, looking for my Mr. Right. I love to self reflect, hang out with friends and family, and watch Netflix. I’m tired of games and I just want to find a guy to settle down with. I’d love to m
Kekeletso
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30
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Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 37 - 47
Very optimistic - for a serious relationship
I am a respectful and loving Sesotho lady from SA who enjoys interesting conversations, brunch and dinner dates, art galleries and museums, movies and series, learning all sorts of different things and having new experiences I'm a christian but op
Eshell
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37
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Tzaneen, Limpopo, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 35 - 58
I'm not here for games.
Love to read, travelling, fun and outgoing.. A very hard working woman. Family oriented. I'm willing to relocate. I'm not here for fun, so please do not text me if you just want to sex chat with African women. I don't do that. I don't do games. Atleast be able to hold a conversation down.
Faithdanai
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30
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Brakpan, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 33 - 38
Looking for like minded partner
I'm a well reserved person, down to earth, open minded, determined, ambitious, outgoing and always keeps my values. I believe in oness, one mindset one life goals with my one so called soul mate.... I understand very well that when two pple met they are from different backgrounds and maybe races but once they are together they compliment each other and lot of sacrifice, willingness, acceptance compromise, understanding & some self denial will be required for them to become one for the goal of courtship to be accomplished " For the two have become one"........ And LOVE conquers all
Kekeletso
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30
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Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 40 - 47
You can call me Kay Kay
INFJ-T Looking for something serious leading to marriage Christian woman (You don't have to be - as long as there's mutual respect) I love science (biology and chemistry) Generally laugh a lot, dad jokes are safe with me lol! Into art and mus
miss B
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39
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 38 - 50
Hello there looking a man who is honest n mature.
I am woman who love God and spending time with family and friends,i love staying indoors but i enjoys outings as well with fun loving people,i respect n appreciate people that to me comes natural,i enjoy talking and watching movies(comedy),i love tra
Chihera
Standard Member
Verified
38
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Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 35 - 55
COULD YOU BE THE ONE I'VE BEEN WAITING FOR?!🙈
I love the outdoors, nature walking, fishing, soccer(I'm a staunch Arsenal supporter), cooking, reading, photography, trying out different restaurants, shopping, learning languages, visiting historical sites, museums & art galleries. I love listening to RnB, hip-hop, contemporary jazz & soul music. I'm a sophisticated, smart, mature, humble, loving, honest, sociable, down to earth & fun to be around kinda person😊
Gigi
Standard Member
36
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Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 30 - 53
Love yourself above all things!
I am a young professional who has a passion for life. Learning new things and going through life's experiences are but spice on this journey called life. I am an avid reader, I enjoy singing, dancing and writing poetry. I live in one of the most beautiful cities in the world, so being outdoors and taking walks on the beach or a nice a scenic drive is part of my lifestyle. I have a bubbly personality with a wicked sense of humour.
Didi
Standard Member
Verified
32
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Sandton, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 35 - 70
READ MY BIO BEFORE TEXTING ME
I'm not religious, not God fearing, not willing to convert to any religion for anyone. Don't have kids, don't want kids and I'm looking for someone who's looking for a long term relationship which doesn't involve having kids. Only contact me if you share these simple basic values with me. Thanks NB: coming into my inbox to judge me for my choices will only get you blocked cos I don't have time for bigots. Love and light ✨️
Yolanda
Standard Member
36
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Sandton, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 37 - 60
Looking for my soul mate
A little about yourself...I'm a christian lady who loves travelling, fashion and music.im adventurous and always eager to learn or try new things.i work hard to be the best I can be.im a very shy person but once I get to know someone I get comfortable and open up.
Barbz
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39
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Boksburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 40 - 65
looking for a long term relationship 💞🙏🏽🫶🏽
I’m a fun, loving and adventurous person with a passion for exploring the world and trying new things. I’m hardworking and driven, but I also make time for what really matters, like creating meaningful connections and making memories. Soft-spoken, understanding, and compassionate, I value open communication and kindness. I’m looking for someone who shares a love for life, is ready to build something real, and is open to all the adventures life has to offer🫶🏽 🌎 💞🙏🏽🤞✌️
Julie
Standard Member
33
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Mount Edgecombe, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 33 - 58
If you're adventurous with dark humour
well uh.. I'm a complex yet simple human... I'm not too hard to please..I think lol.. if you can get Me to laugh, I swear I'll luv you forever. I'm a bit of a Domi🤫 so if you're into that sort of thing, then it's a perfect match. Would be awesome to
Nthaby
Standard Member
Verified
32
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 40 - 80
i dnt hv time for everyday greetings,know ur story
Fun loving hands on mother, very open minded and adventurous,loves traveling and exploring,A foodie that eats in small potions,well mannered,raised well,I believe in love ,and all the princess treatment that comes with it ,you mention sex and nudes pictures, il mention money so we can both feel uncomfortable 😂
Trudy
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35
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East London, Eastern Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 32 - 52
Looking for serious relationship 💋💋💋❤❤❤
Iam loving caring person family oriented I love traveling independent young lady I don't have kids at the moment I wish to have kids someday iam loving for some that have goals in mind caring person who loves traveling as I love
Blessed
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39
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Westville, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 45 - 55
What you see is what you get. African Goddess 💎
A very simple but fun person to be with ,with a very strong Christian background a true African Queen , to my king but also a very straight forward person who can't tolerate nonsense hence in a very polite and respectful manner not hash at all .but can't stand lies.A beautiful woman inside-out.❣️
Linda
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30
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 35 - 52
searching for my missing heart my partner in crime
30 year old woman single mom who is giving her self a second chance in life to get love again Christian woman funny loving and caring enjoy spending time with family a woman who grew up in both rural and urban areas know how to appreciate what every
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