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Belle
Standard Member
47
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Mossel Bay, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 45 - 55
Are there authentic men on this site?
I consider myself to be a loving, loyal and an open-minded woman. I'm God-driven, family-oriented, intelligent and a great friend. I love reading when I find the time and I'm playful at times. I value the relationships I build, my life's experience has taught me the importance of genuine connection, kindness and balance. I enjoy being out in nature and entertaining at home in my free time.
Nikiwe
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44
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Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 38 - 99
Plz I'm not here for sx or sending u nudes
I'm a black woman looking 4 a good loving man. I know how to love and respect my man. I'm fun and want to learn new things and see new things. I'm willing to get on a bus even to get to the man I love. I'm fun and exciting too be with. Let me rock ur
Tehilla
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42
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 45 - 74
Let me be the sunshine of your life❤❤❤❤
Looking for a serious meaningful relationship.. I'm only here for serious guys from the age of 45years going up.. If you know that you here for fun and sex games please don't bother contacting me please if you not 45 years old and above don't bother contacting me.. Im not a rehabilitation centre for sexually frastrated badly raised men.. And guys from India, Pakistan, Algeria, Morocco, Egypt, Nigeria, Kenya, Ghana don't contact me please 🙏🙏🙏
Jay
Standard Member
Verified
47
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Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 42 - 60
Hello...
Down to earth, hardworking, independent, educated, mother of one boy, and currently working in South Africa. I am juliet.mwale on the Sky... I enjoy most things in life, and generally prefer the simple but interesting life. Happy with who I am, and now looking to meet that special someone, and I am also happy to make friends along the way.
Michelle
Standard Member
Verified
42
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Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 37 - 65
Hello …
Covid is all, but over for the most part but I still want to give online dating a try. It has worked out well for some people I know. And People kinda tend to shy away from admitting they're "looking " (at least I used to) but if we're really honest, until you find that someone, we're all looking, right? I might find my life long partner here to share a Great Life of Love with romance, laughter, generational wealth building, spirituality, robust, witty communication, dancing, traveling, meeting of the minds, my best friend, chivalry, and other exciting interests and adventures ahead . I like dining out, plays, concerts (large and small) walks, light hiking, horse back, movies, sports and art. Im pretty flexible as far as activities.
Bongi
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Verified
40
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 39 - 56
Please go through my profile before you reach out.
Here is a single mom of 1 from South Africa, I am on this app with the hopes of meeting new and genuine people and hopefully meet that one person that will tickle my fancy. I have no desire to get married or to have more children all I want is a stable and committed relationship with that special someone. If you are under 38 keep it moving don't waste your time.
Zoya
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40
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Sandton, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 40 - 95
ONLY INTERESTED IN CAUCASIAN GENTLEMEN.
Well travelled, loving, kind, caring lady looking for a SERIOUS relationship. I'm smart, fun to be around, well travelled, driven, enjoy a good beverage/dinner at a discreet spot, happy in company or alone just tucking into a good docu-series/movie. I love piano but also appreciate most music genres. If you are a picture collector, please don't bother contacting me. I am not sending pictures to strangers. You can clearly see my pictures here online. I am looking for an INTERRACIAL RELATIONSHIP ONLY.
Cecilia
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48
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Sandton, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 43 - 58
Piccant1162
I am a down-to-earth woman looking for someone who is interested in a long-term relationship, who can be my best friend and with whom I can share everything with. In terms of qualities, I am looking for someone who is kind, open-minded, a good list
Carone
Standard Member
Verified
41
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 46 - 60
Not here to entertain, here for my soulmate
I am a loving and humble individual, who is not at liberty to judge other people. I have a very good sense of humour. I respect all humanity and l understand cultural diversity. I am here to date with a purpose to find my best friend and my soul mate. I have zero respect for men who asks for nudes l feel like they don't respect women. At least after you have known someone well. I believe women are beautiful and awesome beings, they deserve love and respect. I believe in God, the fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom. I am not a perfect human being, l have my own flaws and short comings thus why l am not at liberty to judge others but l value respect as we are all special, fearfully and wonderfully made
VICTORIA
Standard Member
Verified
40
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Randburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 42 - 65
LOOKING FOR A LIFE PARTNER
I'M JUST A SIMPLE LADY VERY FRIENDLY WITH SENSE OF HUMOR. I'M HERE LOOKING FOR MY BETTER HALF, MY KING .SOMEONE WHO WILL APPRECIATE TO BE LOVED UNCONDITIONALLY. NOT LOOKING FOR CASUAL ANYTHING. I AM DECENT AND HONEST RESPECTABLE LADY LOOKING FOR THE REAL DEAL. I AM LOOKING FOR SOMEONE WHO IS READY TO SETTLE DOWN. AND BUILD OUR FUTURE TOGETHER. I AM INTO INTERRACIAL RELATIONSHIPS
Dove
Standard Member
40
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Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 37 - 50
Get to know me and find out 😊
I am a Christian woman who loves her family. I hate lies and I despise people who lie. I'm a very straight forward person but most importantly I'm a very interesting person to hang around with. I'm adventurous, love traveling and the outdoors. If you are lucky you will get a chance to know more interesting things about me 😘
Ephenia
Standard Member
Verified
40
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Rustenburg, North-West, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 40 - 60
A queen looking for her king
I am a kind loving person, easy to get along with and fun to have around. I'm a mother of 2 children and I don't intent to make any more children. I am also highly academically accomplished with 2 Masters degrees and busy with my PHD.
Bridget
Standard Member
49
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 35 - 60
ONLY WHITE PLEASE
My interests ;travelling ( have been to U.S.A(several states), Finland, and some African countries), movies, concerts, dinning out, wine tasting, nature (wildlife: we have plenty of that in Botswana). I'm very honest,trustworthy, independent, humorous, a bit laid-back sometimes, affectionate, family-oriented, ONE-MAN-WOMAN: not interested in polygamists and men who move from 1 woman to the next please don't bother. Very dignified and respectful. I love music( R&B, soft rock, classics, soul, pop, hip hop, MOVIES; thriller, drama, action, documentaries, history, national geographic, geo-politics, world news. I'm told I look 10years younger!!. I'm definitely not materialistic, I have 1 child who is grown and working, doesn't live with me.
Milly
Standard Member
41
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Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 38 - 49
hey there
well i guess we need to get in touch hey.... Most definitely do a video call initially to get started, if you are not willing to do a video call please do not contact me. Am a very sociable, God is the ultimate in my life. I love nature and hiking at times, picnics, visit the beach ....discovery of new things in life is vital
Storm
Standard Member
Verified
49
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Midrand, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 50 - 60
Ready and Seeking a life partner.
I am a Creative who loves fashion, hair color, beaches, islands, flying and I’m an international luxury leather bag designer. I love to travel , polite and very respectful with a hint of crazy, I love great but chilled conversations, love non toxic colour on my hair, lips. Wellness, gym, good food, a creature of comfort, i work a lot but also play a little more. I’m authentically me.
Mapelisa
Standard Member
40
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 37 - 54
Read before sending me a "like"
I am fun and love to have a good time. Be it relaxing with friends at home or out in restaurants. I love to traveled and I have traveled to several countries. Trying out new this is what I also like doing. I only like long drives when I am not the one driving.
Jacky
Standard Member
40
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 40 - 80
Looking For Love
Im a very fun out going person .I love traveling and reading. I would like to meet with someone who is loving and caring. I love traveling and learning new things. I dont always have time to chat but i will make time once im sure of someone .Im not very good in advertising my self so feel free to ask any questions
Shresh
Standard Member
46
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 45 - 51
Life is Short.....Embrace it...💜 ISIAH 54v17
I'm widowed for the past 12 years. I'm a caring God fearing independent individual. I have a daughter of 21 I love simple things in life. I also whatching live concerts music n dance. I'm a happy person and love learning about different cultures and ways of life. Im positive n love to laugh n doing things differently. Family is very important to me. I pray you find love ...all the best to u Kind regards .....Shresh.
Naiso
Standard Member
42
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Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 39 - 50
Hey
I'm a very honest humble warm hearted and caring person. I'm sensitive when it comes to my relationships (family and friends get 100% of me)... I consistently check in with myself to keep me on track. I enjoy spending time with my man and caring for his needs.... I love holding hands and cuddling!!! I am passionate about finding some one who will love me for who i'm and .... I dream of having a family with that perfect someone... I won't covet my sensitive side. I believe a woamn should connect with those feelings that show a man how much she truly cares about him...
Philisiwe
Standard Member
45
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 37 - 50
Respect, honesty and family,these are my values.
I have a good heart and always trying to help others.I get emotional when watching a sad movie even if it's cartoons lol, laughter is the best medicine.I'm an introvert but I do like going out sometimes.I don't like people who don't respect others because of what they don't have or their occupation.I love Love.♥️
Bea
Standard Member
Verified
49
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 45 - 59
scammers please give us a break.
Mmmh, what do I say? Maybe check my profile and pictures if you like a thing or two; make contact and take it from there. But what I'm not is a sex worker, so if you are looking for nudes and kinky chats, we are not a match. I am also NOT rich, so there is no money to scam. I am a simple, easy-going person, but certainly not naive. I am from South Africa, and I happen to be attracted to Caucasian men, but I am most certainly not after a ticket to Europe or trying to escape poverty in Africa!
Buli
Standard Member
49
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Port Elizabeth, Eastern Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 44 - 60
I'm ready to find my special ever after
I define myself as a woman who is strong, confident, and indipendant, i know what i want and not afraid to go after it, i am kind loving and compassionate, i am self driven , honest very positive about life am family oriented, i am proud of who i am and my accomplishments, however i dont like fake people apparently you'll find a lot of them here on this site please go and be unhappy elsewhere....i am real what you see is what you get, i know i look younger than my age also very active....
FAITH
Standard Member
47
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Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 43 - 59
hello my name is FAITH from South Africa,looking f...
I'm 46 years old ,mother of two boys ,I'm a nurse by profession,looking for handsome man ,family orientated and GOD fearing,I'm an independent lady bt submissive ,respecting my partner ,as head of the house ,man is a provider and protector of his house ,VEDEO CALL before we continue chatting if you interested
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MeloGP
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40
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Centurion, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 39 - 60
Melo here from a beautiful country called South Africa! I’m 40 years old, a mature and loving single mom of three amazing kids. As my children grow older, I'm now ready to focus on myself and find someone special to share life's joys with. I'm looking for a kind-hearted companion, friend, and partner who values love, family, and friendship. If you're a genuine, caring, and gentle soul who is ready to build a life together and grow older with me, let's connect! NB: Willing to relocate Worldwide.
Christal
Standard Member
44
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Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 40 - 59
Humbled, down to earth, not materialistic as those have no meaning... but memories build are treasures... Introvert😇 Extrovert😈 A little of both... I'm a very good listener, caring, loving, and tends to put others needs first. Never married, No kids. PS... No players please!
creative
Standard Member
48
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 50 - 70
Exploring the depths of love with an open heart.
Passionate about life, I thrive on meaningful connections and shared adventures. A blend of ambition and appreciation for the present, I enjoy exploring new places, creating memories through laughter. A good listener and a lifelong learner, I value
Daisy
Standard Member
48
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Bloemfontein, Free State, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 43 - 65
Hi there.... looking for love
I am a 50 year old employed woman with one child. Im loving, caring, honest, open minded with a good sense of humour, fun to be with and like trying new things. I'm not a scammer. I'm a real woman looking for love. Im not here to ask for money, airtime and I'm not interested in exchanging nude photos. I'm able to do live video calls. I don't communicate by email. Willing to meet in person.
hi
Standard Member
47
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Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 38 - 70
Come find love & affection , are you there !
Am very affectionate & Love outdoors a very good sense of homour , please guys Am interested in funny games or any format of funny photos or videos. If you know you want this , take a pass. Strictly don't wasted my precious time & yours & scAm artists no chance. More information just simply ask. I love travelling & just have been to Germany , few places around Africa & latest was USA & Am so fortunate to have a 10 years USA business visa. The rest wl be saved for the big day . Wildlife & nature.
Janet
Standard Member
40
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Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 40 - 62
Hi there
About Me I'm an outgoing and adventurous person who loves exploring new places and trying new things. In my free time, you can find me hiking in the mountains, reading a good book, or trying a new recipe in the kitchen. I value honesty, kindness, and a good sense of humor in a partner. I'm looking for someone who is passionate about life and isn't afraid to try new experiences with me. Whether it's planning a spontaneous weekend getaway or just having a cozy night in, I believe that the best relationships are built on a foundation of mutual respect, communication, and a shared sense of wonder about the world. When I'm not working, I love getting out and being active. Staying physically and mentally fit is important to me. I enjoy activities like yoga, cycling, and rock climbing. But I also know how to relax and unwind - you might catch me curled up with a glass of wine and a thought-provoking podcast. I'm an extrovert at heart and I love meeting new people and making connections. If you're someone who is outgoing, intellectually curious, and excited about life's adventures, I'd love to chat more. Send me a message and let's see where this could go!
Siwe
Standard Member
40
•
Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 38 - 57
Let love find you ❤️
I describe myself as an introverted. I prefer quiet time, night ins, I enjoy reading novels, watching movies and listening to music (RnB, soul and dance music ect), I am a music lover. I also try to spend as much time outside as I possibly can. watching sports (soccer, rugby, cricket an other) it's one of the things I enjoy.
Phumeza
Standard Member
49
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Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 44 - 61
Loving, caring, with a sweet personality.
Hi, I'm a 49 years old lady, loving caring, down to earth person with strong christian values. I'm very adaptive, I appreciate the diversity of our cultures and have respect for other peoples religions. I'm a very family orientated person. I enjoy doing sport activities to keep my self active and I love pets and nature. I enjoy cooking, baking, gardening and talking nature walks, beach walks and being adventurous with my loved ones. I appreciate all music genres but I love Gospel. I have children, but not staying with me.
Anni
Standard Member
41
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Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 40 - 99
Don't force love ,let love lead the way.
Reserved,I'm a down to earth woman who likes simple things in life ,good sense of humor and very easygoing ,I have such high empathy ,I enjoy making difference in other people's lives ,a shoulder to cry on ,someone who is always be there for you ,loyal and reliable ,I love meeting new people learning about their background
Amanda
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45
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George, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 41 - 60
I am a hornest loyal respectful woman who can love hard i was married but saperated for 3years im filling my divorce paper i want to find love again and be loved and happy if i find my partner here on this app im not young anymore so i dont want pro
Laila
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44
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 40 - 54
Looking for a life partner
I consider myself to be a loving and caring individual, that knows what she wants in life and is not prepared to settle for less. I am religious and practice Islam in all I do. I am a family oriented person, but also like to socialize and interact wi
Nkosizile
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40
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 38 - 60
when l find it l will know
lam a Christian l have a strong relationship with my saviour 🙌 I enjoy cleaning and packing lol. l love saving it gives me satisfaction when l hit my target amount on the year end ... if you love cleaning and saving and you care about animals... w
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