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AdeolađŸ‘‘đŸ”„
23 Lagos, Lagos, Nigeria
Seeking: Male 25 - 30
Let’s get one thing straight—I am not here for games, fantasies, or endless small talk. I want a genuine connection, built on love, partnership, and, yes, financial support. Because let’s be real: love is sweet, but it’s even sweeter when there’s stability, care, and generosity involved. I am independent, smart, and driven, but when it comes to my man, I expect to be treated like a baby princess. And if that sounds like too much for you, kindly keep scrolling. I’ve seen a trend—so many of you come on here stating, "I don’t give money to women I haven’t met." Yet, you’re the same ones asking for something sexy within 24 hours. Make it make sense. You come on an African dating platform, but some of you treat African women as if we’re "cheaper" or "less deserving." If you believe that, you’re already lost. And let’s clear this up once and for all: If a woman in my country treated you badly, you might want to ask yourself why. Because in my culture, a woman won’t just leave or act out for no reason. Let me break it down for you: You were a simp – Women don’t respect weak, indecisive men who can’t lead. You weren’t a provider – Love alone doesn’t run a relationship. If you’re stingy, expect the worst. You lacked confidence – Women are naturally drawn to strong, assertive men. You didn’t treat her right – Respect is earned, not demanded. And for the ones who think African women are scammers—do you think there’s no scam in your country? Every country has good and bad people. If you got played, you let yourself get played. That has nothing to do with me. News flash: African women are NOT the same as Western women. If a white woman left you, that has nothing to do with me—we are raised differently, we value relationships differently, and we don’t move the same way. Western culture often pushes independence to the extreme—“I don’t need a man” energy—whereas African women believe in partnership, respect, and reciprocity. But here’s the thing: respect is earned. If you weren’t a leader, provider, or protector in your last relationship, don’t come here blaming women for your failures. Most divorced men have two issues: 1. They assume all women are the same – If you got played before, instead of learning from it, you think every woman will do the same. That’s a "you" problem. 2. They approach new relationships with a broke boy mindset – Being stingy, withholding, and always calculating what a woman "deserves" instead of naturally giving and leading. Listen, if you’re coming in with trust issues, baggage, or the idea that "all women just want money," don’t DM me. I’m here to bring value, add peace, and make you better. If you’re ready for that, step up. If not, keep scrolling. Simple.

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